A couple gets romantic
The amazingly overwhelming feeling of love has been one of the chosen topics of reflection and musing. Besides motivating poets and musicians, the sensation of love - marked by its quintessential glory and sentimental richness is perhaps as ancient as the time unfolding the birth of human civilization. It is said that individuals struck by Cupid's arrow; or smitten by its tantalizing appeal, experiences the joyful exuberances of heaven.
Quite often love is confused with lust and infatuation; with both lust and emotion being the expression of physical fascination or weakness. Understandably both need to be separated from the sacredly emotional feeling of love. In case you have been attracted to the special someone, for it all begins with initial sparks of attraction; here are some ways whereby you may identify the nature of those personalized feelings.
- Love can be a source of inspiration and joy. In case you feel motivated going near the person; or if the person concerned serves to be your mood elevator so much so that you yearn for his/her companionship; then congratulate yourself on being in love.
- Weigh your emotions carefully. Stop to fathom if you are prepared for a serious relationship with your beau so much so that you can readily fall within the bounds of a serious commitment. In case there is an element of probability; the feelings are more likely to be physical fascination rather than love.
- On the other hand if you are dead sure about your guy; irrespective of what or who comes your way being a source of possible impediment; then it is more likely to be love.
- One of the best possible tests of love is by having it subject to the trials of time. In case it has successfully withstood the test and obstacles of time, you may be certain that it is love.
- Similarly going by the reputed maxim which says that love conquers all; if one has really fallen in love it should be strong enough to defeat all odds.
- In case he/she can be accepted with all possible frailties and defects; then there can be no doubt as to the presence of the intensely captivating emotion of love.
- If you keep missing his/hers fascinating presence; in spite of being with the best of friends and acquaintances; then be certain to have come under the piercing arrows of Cupid- the God of love.
- In case there is no boggling fear of uncertainty as to being ditched or deceived by that special someone then be sure to have fallen in love.
- When you are least bothered as to the possible thoughts of friends and family members about your special person; then it can be claimed with certainty that you are in love.
- If you blush seeing the special someone; be sure that love is in air.
- In case both of you have struck a comfort zone; where you can accept one another just the way one is; without having to resort to any sham or pretence then be sure of having fallen in love. Real love always ensures that you be yourself with no involvement of falsehood or façade.
- Thus if one happens to be truly in love; he/she should not be perturbed by the issues of fights or quarrels. You must feel free to vent your real feelings without having to bother about prospects of separation.
- In case a couple is really in love; they should be no rooms for doubt and questions of divided loyalty. At no time will arise a feeling of apprehensions or facts that one or the other is being tested.
Last but not the least; the powerfully motivating passions of love should make you feel complete; energized and ready to take any situation head on.
